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    • shplane@lemmy.world
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      2 months ago

      It’s a common conversation though. I live in a big city and people who live in rural areas say this to me all the time. I just shrug my shoulders and say, “ya, good, live where makes you happy.”

      • Clent@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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        2 months ago

        Some of the rural people I know are extended family and if I take them at face value what they are essentially explaining sounds like some yet to be undefined personality disorder.

        They all circle around a set of claims that amount to an inability to adhere to basic social skills that even the most neurodivergent person manages to perform.

  • Rayquetzalcoatl@lemmy.world
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    2 months ago

    I guess I don’t understand the reference. How else are you going to get something you bought back to your place? This doesn’t seem weird. I’m not in or from, and have never been to, NYC though, so I’m probably missing something lol

    • rainwall@piefed.social
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      2 months ago

      Its an infrequent question you get if you dont own a car in the US. With mass transit generally being shit everywhere, but slightly less shit in cities, people who dont live in cities think moving things around is impossible, because a car is the only possibility that they are personally acquainted with.

      Its not impossible, just vaguely awkward sometimes as this meme shows, which is a solid tradeoff for not having to deal with all the bullshit owning a car entails.

      • RememberTheApollo_@lemmy.world
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        2 months ago

        Right. Think of all the few times you might need to buy something truly cumbersome and bulky that can’t realistically be brought home via mass transit. Now, think of how much it might cost to have that item delivered - a service readily available in cities.

        Calculate up how much a car costs, insurance, fuel, maintenance, and parking, and to be fair, subtract mass transit costs.

        Compare that to the rare delivery.

        See if you’re better off, saving money, not having a car.

        On the rare occasion you do want a car for long-distances not practical by air or other transit, rent one.

        Source: lived in a major metro area. Car was a real burden having the expense of it, parking it, and having to be on watch all the time for street sweeping or snow days where you couldn’t park on the street. The subway was cheap, accessible, and far quicker than driving the vast majority of the time.

        • Kazumara@discuss.tchncs.de
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          2 months ago

          Last time I rented a car to get my sister home from the Airport a little more comfortably after a long flight, she was worried about me spending too much just for that.

          I had to put it in perspective for her: The rent with fuel was around 45 CHF. One year of insurance for a normal car alone would be about 450 CHF. Never mind any of the other costs.

          And I don’t even rent a car 10 times a year! (Unless you also count when I rent one for work, but that’s charged to the workplace of course.)

          • boonhet@sopuli.xyz
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            2 months ago

            Here it’s more like 40-200 eur per year for insurance and 60+ to rent for a day

            But if you can get your shit done in an hour or 2, Bolt Drive or Citybee are prolly gonna cost you under 20.

            • Kazumara@discuss.tchncs.de
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              2 months ago

              I just checked the website of Citybee. That seems quite similar to the service I use actually.

              The one here is called Mobility you pay by time and by kilometer. Around 2.50 CHF / h and 0.75 CHF / km, but it depends on the category of vehicle of course. I used it for about 3h and 50km for that airport trip.