• im_me_but_better@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    15 hours ago

    All the possible signals. Really. I’ll give you two of my own experience (or inexperience)

    • Teenagers in a school trip. She tells me, do you want to come with me, I forgot my key in the room. “Sure” I say. I proceed to walk with her and wait for her to go to her room while I held the elevator.

    • Me in a quite alternative bar. She “why don’t you stay longer, I can take you home after”. Me “I have early class tomorrow”.

    Both were drop dead gorgeous (the first one was fairly wealthy)

    Those are just two examples. My life is full of them. Apparently I’m more attractive than smart.

    Of course, there have been some super direct where I clued in but it was impossible not to.