European. Contrarian liberal. Insufferable green. History graduate. I never downvote reasoned opinions and I do not engage with people who downvote mine (which may be why you got no reply). Low-effort comments with vulgarity or snark will also be politely ignored.

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  • this place is never going to be good for any discussions where people disagree strongly.

    Most users downvote what they dont agree with. Its a circle jerk echo chamber where we all agree or get downvoted.

    So true, and so sad. This has been such a disappointment to me, and even a bit of a surprise. I just didn’t realize how badly most people respond to seeing viewpoints they don’t fully share. Personally I don’t get the point of discussion where everyone agrees, but apparently that is quite a rare attitude. So I share your pessimism, but with one glimmer of hope. There is at least one forum which has cracked this problem: Hacker News. The issue being that it’s frequented by exactly the kind of techie Spock-like personalities that aren’t representative of the general population.






  • This is my analysis too. And why, instead of just upvoting posts that interest me, I try to think of something to say about them too. The dreaded “0 comments” is never a good look no matter how we much we tell ourselves that it doesn’t matter.

    For this reason I tend to believe that many communities just have too much primary content. Too many posts and not enough comments.

    Thought experiment. 2 communities:

    • /c/one has 15 posts per day, 5 of them with 3 comments, the other 10 with none
    • /c/two has 3 posts per day with 5 comments each

    Which is the healthier community?


  • So you’re saying that (you think the data says) most people here are not blanket-downvoting anything that gives them marginally bad vibes, and that the damage is being done by a busy few? Interesting if true. I too basically never downvote, on the principle that it’s toxic and hostile and just not something that has a polite equivalent in person. I had assumed I was a massive outlier.


  • All decent advice. Here’s a thought experiment.

    Start a discussion, debate, or ponder about [etc]

    By the same token it would be bad to stop such a discussion, right? Right.

    Make new communities if you don’t see one that fits

    Therefore it would be bad to *destroy" such communities, right? Indeed.

    Upvote the things you like

    So, it would be bad to downvote the things you - personally, subjectively - don’t like - right? It wouldn’t? Why so?

    Don’t downvote other people’s good-faith opinions. It’s petty, it’s juvenile, it’s toxic. Even if you don’t see it that way. It’s precisely what will discourage the participation we all want to see.