You’re right, and I appreciate your deep emotional investment in my contraction.

Ty for that context and counterpoint.

But ill add that he then paid us back w/the insufferable “i like pretty girls” Song.

Im saying its weaponized discomfort to not like a tourist because they wearing a hoodie, shoes and shorts. Service staff is there to make money and serve, not shame people for their dress.

Also, I love you. Let’s run away together.

And just to reiterate a little more clearly, my whole point is your feelings are on you. I am responsible for my actions and words.

If shame was that valuable, fox news would have had us doing their dirty work long ago.

Weaponizing discomfort is toxic because it uses confusion and shame as a form of control. It makes someone feel small and off balance instead of safe and understood, turning communication into emotional pressure rather than clarity.

Shame is as old as time. It is just another way of saying “fall in line.”

Real connection takes far more effort and far more courage. Owning your feelings and your actions is difficult, but it is also infinitely more worthwhile.

Weaponizing discomfort is toxic because it uses confusion and shame as control, making someone feel small and off balance instead of safe and understood, turning communication into emotional pressure rather than clarity.

Shame is as old as time, but people are always responsible for their own feelings.

Put another way sticks and stone may break my bones, but some people (kratzkopf) will always find some reason to justify being offended.

It would be better phrased without ending the sentence with a preposition, such as, “Sorry, I do not know to what you are referring.”

Are we weaponizing discomfort again…already?

If your famous enough, they’ll let you slap people on stage these days.

1 From dictionary: A person’s race is primarily a social construct defined by self-identification with one or more social groups, based on perceived physical characteristics like skin color…

2. I love you, let’s run away together.

I like the one with the warm center, the one warf goes into over and over.

It’s a joke, not a huge dick…try not to take it so hard.

Penis.

Hogs eating their own? Don’t matter to the hog. - Billy the kid

Hear they have good food tho.

A family that’s all one race? I haven’t seen this since the 90s.