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Cake day: February 14th, 2025

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  • Oh nice. I’ve heard of a fundamental attribution error before but didnt realise it was this.

    You commonly see it written as “we judge ourselves by our inte twins but others by their actions”.

    Using the examples in that wikipedia page, if we are late for work it doesn’t matter because we intended to be on time. If others are late it indicates a lack of planning or dedication.


  • Its a tricky game to play.

    For you, if you know it will take you 3s to go from sitting comfortably to walking down the aisle, then fine - you can wait.

    Most people need time to get organised. They’re also unable to focus on getting organised unless they’re standing up because that is one step in getting organised. They have no ability to prioritise the steps which are presently actionable.